I love getting compliments (who doesn't?), especially on my hair. I get the most attention when I wear a fresh twistout. Usually after a compliment people ask, "How do you get your hair to do that?" I normally give people the short and quick version: "I just twist it with gel, let it dry, and take it down." By now, you know me well enough to know that there is a little more to it (and a lot more products! LOL). Here's how I do my twistouts:
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Sunday, May 18, 2008
How do you do that?: The Curly Twistout
I love getting compliments (who doesn't?), especially on my hair. I get the most attention when I wear a fresh twistout. Usually after a compliment people ask, "How do you get your hair to do that?" I normally give people the short and quick version: "I just twist it with gel, let it dry, and take it down." By now, you know me well enough to know that there is a little more to it (and a lot more products! LOL). Here's how I do my twistouts:
First, I start out with freshly shampooed and deep conditioned hair. Here's what mine looks like after shampooing and conditioning and before detangling (note: my hair color doesn't really look like this--the flash on my camera is bringing out all these different shades, depending on the light):
Ok, you know I love y'all to be showing my hair undone all willy nilly on the Internet! But it's for educational purposes, so I'm willing to expose my vulnerable self.
As an aside, the Goody's add + shine infused with jojoba oil brush (the one with the $1 off coupon) really detangles well. Make sure you get this exact brush because the bristles are flexible, soft and don't have balls on the ends. This is probably what makes it work so well on naturale hair.
Ok, back to the twistout. Next, I section off rows of hair starting at the nape of the neck and twist two sections of hair together. I use dab of a moisturizer and a holding product before twisting the section. I made bigger sections for bigger waves this time. I make to the two pieces that I twist together the same length and thickness so that I don't have to redistribute hair as I twist. That way, when I take the twist down, I can just insert my finger at the root and pull it down to the ends. It also makes the hair more defined (which is the point of a twistout). I twist as much as possible to the ends, then I twirl the ends around my finger to make a coil.
I put Qhemet Biologics Tea Tree and Grapeseed Pomade on my scalp, which is turning out to be great on my flaky scalp. In these pictures, I used some Kemi Oyl products. The products look white because they haven't completely absorbed into my hair yet. It will disappear--I promise!
The Kemi Oyl gel was just ok. Pros: it made my hair really shiny and it the twistout stayed defined for the longest length of time ever--2 weeks. Cons--my hair was totally not touchable. It made my hair sticky, which is embarrassing when people want to touch your hair (which they will!), and gross when you have your hand in your hair playing with it all day (which you will!). This is otherwise known as "Hand-in-Fro Disease" (HIF).
Here's what the twists look like when they're finished (see, I told you the products would disappear!):
You all out there with thicker hair will probably love to wear your hair like this for a week or two before taking the twists down for a twistout. However, I feel like my hair is not full enough, especially with bigger twists. Thin hair + bigger twists + full face = not cute (on me anyway).
It gets better once I take the twists down, but I've found the best solution for a full twistout. After I'm done with the twists and while my hair is still damp, I set the twists on sponge rollers:
Then I go to sleep with a bonnet over the rollers. In the morning, I sit under a hooded dryer for 15 minutes just to make sure the twists are completely dry. Here's what the twists look like after I take the rollers out:
Then I take the twists down. As I mentioned above, I stick my finger between the strands and pull down through the ends, keeping the two strands in tact. Then I dab a little IC Fantasia Gel on my edges, smooth them with my fine-toothed comb (only about an inch up the hairline), and put a folded up scarf on to set the edges and make them smooth. I wear the scarf on my way to work.
Here's the same thing, but I used Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme and Curly Meringue. My hair is not quite as shiny and the twistout lasted about a week. However, my hair was very touchable!
That's my every day hairstyle! When it gets fuzzy, I pull it up into a puff. I guess I'll have to do a post on puffs later.
A neat website to check out is Miss Jessie's: http://www.missjessies.com/. They have some pretty good tutorials for hairstyles, including the twistout: http://www.missjessies.com/twist101.htm
Another reason why I decided to go naturale: I wanted healthier hair. I was so tired of trying to grow my hair long, getting it to a decent length, and it breaking off. My hair is thin, so straight hair was flat to my head. Now my hair is healthy and full with no breakage!
Here's a picture of me with my hair relaxed. I hope SCE, ABK and LKY will forgive me for posting this without their permission!
Here's a picture showing the length of my hair stretched out. Isn't it amazing how much natural hair shrinks?
Friday, May 2, 2008
Flat Twist Tutorial
There are lots of hair tutorials that explain how to do different hairstyles. Here is one that shows how to do flat twists. I used to do this style all the time when I was transitioning. It is great because it blends the two textures and sets the hair for at least a week. I usually ended up with 10 rows and it took about an hour to do. I would do the twists at night, put on a scarf, and let them air dry overnight. In the morning, I would sit under the dryer for about 15 minutes, just to make sure that it was completely dry. If your hair is not completely dry when you take it down, you will end up with frizzy hair. At the time, I was using John Freida products. At night, I would wear a scarf or a hair bonnet.
I haven't done my own flat twists since I've been completely natural because it makes for bigger hair, and I like smaller, more defined hair on me. I may try it again sometime soon though.
I don't know anything about the products advertised in the video, but the technique is good. I just wish they would have shown how it looks when taken down. Check it out:
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Sunday, April 27, 2008
Product Ingredients to Avoid
Believe it or not, I actually have some more information to give you on hair products. As you can see, I am a recovering product junkie. I say "recovering" because I when I first started transitioning, I ordered anything anyone raved about on Nappturality.com like it was a compulsion. As MDR loves remind everyone, every couple of days he would find a little brown box with my name on it in the mail. Now I have a better idea of what my hair likes, so I only buy when I run out of something (for the most part :-) ). Anyway, one thing that keeps me from buying everything I see in the stores is knowing what product ingredients are good for the hair and those that are detrimental (except when I'm in store specializing in organic products, like Whole Foods or Rainbow Blossom).
Check out this short article entitled "10 Chemicals to Avoid" by Deecoily, the founder of Nappturality.com: 10 Chemicals to Avoid
I also avoid products that contain beeswax because it builds up and dries my hair out. For the same reason, I avoid products containing silicone, as well as ingredients that end with the suffix "cone," such as dimethicone.
Admittedly, I do not always follow these rules. Because many of these ingredients are in most products (some because they are cheaper than products that are good for you), it will be hard to find products that don't contain at least one. If you really like the product, I say go for it. It's obviously not the end of the world if you use them. For example, I use Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme even though it contains beeswax, mineral oil, and petrolatum. What can I say--marketing and advertising work. Also, my Pantene clarifying shampoo contains sodium laureth sulfate. However, I only use it every four to six weeks. (I think) the government requires cosmetic companies to list ingredients from the highest concentration to the lowest, so at least try not to buy products with these ingredients listed as one of the first five ingredients.
The featured link for this week is meganjerai's natural hair journey, which is featured on YouTube.com: My Natural Hair Journey. Keep it up, transitioners! Your hair will be this healthy one day.
Another reason why I decided to go naturale: God don't make no junk! I thought about the fact that my kinky/coily/nappy hair texture is so unique as compared to many other nationalities, such as caucasians, asians, indians, and native americans. Sometimes it is hard being different, which makes one want to do everything one can to be like everyone else. However, I realized that God made us all different for a reason, and that my nappy hair was not a mistake that needed to be fixed by relaxers. We are all fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). If my naturale hair is good enough for God, then it's good enough for me!
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Good News and Bad News about Carol's Daughter
I was so happy for Carol's Daughter when Sephora began their products. I love to see black-owned businesses get mainstream success. Also, it provided an opportunity for me to smell all the different scents and get a feel for what products I liked in the store without taking the risk of buying them online and not liking them. So, when I saw that Louisville was getting a Sephora in Oxmoor Mall last year, I was so excited. But imagine my disappointment when I the store opened and they didn't carry Carol's Daughter's products! All they had was their Candy Paint lip gloss.
Ok, here's the good news: I was walking through Sephora yesterday and saw a beautiful Carol's Daughter display! Yay! :-)
The bad news: Still no Tui Herbal Shampoo, one of my favorite Carol's Daughter products. :-( It's still out of stock on the website, too, but it said that they're expecting it to be back in stock in the spring.
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Coupon
Not a full post this time, but in case anyone is interested in the Goody Styling Therapy brush, someone posted this $1 off coupon on Nappturality.com:
http://stylingtherapy.com/res/PrintOutCoupon.pdf
Enjoy (treat yourself to a pack of gum or something)!
Saturday, April 19, 2008
Products and Tools
You this already, but I guess I'll make the following disclaimer: no two heads of hair are alike, so not all the products I am about to recommend will work for everyone. You'll have to do your own trial and error, but my recommendations are based on what has worked for me.
Here are the basic hair products that I use to take care of my natural hair: clarifying shampoo, moisturizing shampoo, protein deep conditioner, moisturizing deep conditioner, detangler/leave-in conditioner, scalp pomade, moisturizer, gel, and curl cream (something with hold).

I just got Qhemet Biologic's Tea Tree and Grapeseed Therapeutic Pomade in the mail (http://www.qhemetbiologics.com/) today. Once I use it, I'll let you know what I think.

I've tried a lot of moisturizers. I believe almost anyone will like either Oyin or Qhemet Biologics's products (see web addresses above). I have had a lot of success with Karen's Body Beautiful Hair Milk (http://www.karensbodybeautiful.com/). I use it on the edges and sides of my hair when I put my hair up in a puff. I don't really use it on twist-outs because it is water based and causes my hair to lose some of the definition. Oh yeah, her shampoo and conditioner are pretty good, too. She has lots of scents to try. So far, I like the White Tea scent the best.
I prefer butter or oil based moisturizers for my twist-outs, but I'm still searching for
my favorite. Right now, I'm using Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme (http://www.missjessies.com/). It's ok--it gets the job done. I only use it a couple of times a week because it has mineral oil in it, which can build up. It is very expensive, too. I buy Miss Jessie's products during their bogo free sale in December, so that helps. Once I use up this jar, I'm definitely going to search for something else.
I use IC Fantasia Hair Polisher Styling Gel with Sparkelites (why is that
name so long?), which can be bought anywhere. I use it to slick down my edges and puffs. It can also be used for twists, twistouts, rod sets, flat twist sets, etc., although I've never used it for those styles. It is the most recommended edge-slicking gel I've seen on Nappturality. I can use it every day without it drying out my hair or flaking up, and is very affordable.
I like to use curl creams for my twist outs. For a long time, Miss Jessie's Curly Meringue was my all-time favorite curl cream.
Here are the basic hair products that I use to take care of my natural hair: clarifying shampoo, moisturizing shampoo, protein deep conditioner, moisturizing deep conditioner, detangler/leave-in conditioner, scalp pomade, moisturizer, gel, and curl cream (something with hold).
Here are the basic hair tools that I use: rattail comb, regular comb, wide-toothed comb, boar bristle brush, denman brush, clips, headbands, ponytail holders, sponge rollers with end papers, satin scarf, satin bonnet, satin pillowcase, and conditioning bonnet attached to a hairdryer.

Additionally, there is a new brush that I haven't tried yet that I'm very curious about. It is called the Goody Styling Therapy Brush add + shine (infused with jojoba oil). http://stylingtherapy.com/main.taf?p=1,2. I read about it on Nappturality.com, and boy are they crazy about this brush. They're saying it detangles better than the Denman, at half the price. I will probably try it soon. LKY, I know this comes a little late, as you have already shelled out cash on a Denman. However, I just thought I'd put it out there.
Finally, there are Curlformers (http://www.curlformers.com/). After watching the YouTube video, I was sold (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Qp9lnwjQKw)! After seeing ABK' pictures, I now officially know that they work on transitioning hair, too. I will be getting these sometime soon as well.
That's basically what I use. For more details and specific recommendations, see below:
Some good clarifying shampoos are: Pantene and Suave (I use Pantene), which can
be purchased at any grocery or drug store. Clarifying shampoos remove product build up and dirt from the hair and scalp. They are very strong, so they should only be used once every four or six
weeks. If it ever feels like the products you once loved aren't working anymore, it could be that you just need a good clarifying shampoo! When I use it, I normally shampoo with the clarifying shampoo first, then I do one or two other washes with a moisturizing shampoo.
I am still looking for my all time favorite moisturizing shampoo. One I've used and liked is
Elucence Moisture Benefits Shampoo. I'm not sure , but I think that Elucene can only be purchased online, either at elucence.com or curlmart.com. It is pretty moisturizing and smells like peaches. It works really well with the Moisture Balancing Conditioner. LKY says the Redken Smooth Down Shampoo is really good, so I may try that soon. I also like Carol's Daughter's Tui Herbal Shampoo, but it has been out of stock on her website for at least 4 or 5 months now. I wonder if she'll bring it back (hope so!).
Protein deep conditioners are good for strengthening hair, and are really good for damaged hair.
I don't really worry about using them that much because since my hair is natural and way stronger than when it was relaxed. However, when I got my hair colored, my colorist highly recommended that I use a good conditioner with protein. I was at an Aveda concept salon, so of course, she recommended the Aveda damage remedy Intensive Restructuring Treatment. It works pretty well. I only use it every now and then because 1) it was so expensive and I want to stretch it out, 2) it comes in such a little tube, and 3) I've heard that protein is good, but can make the hair hard and break off if it is used too often.
There are lots of moisturizing deep conditioners out there that are great. However, my all-time
favorite deep conditioner that I've ever tried is Redken Smooth Down Butter Treat. I don't have any right now because I'm trying to use up all my other conditioners before buying anymore (and trust me, I have a LOT!). No matter what conditioner I use, I always add the following ingredients to kick it up a notch: coconut oil, olive oil, castor oil, and honey (OFF TOPIC: I also like to put castor oil on the ends of my hair if it is especially dry). I warm up the ingredients in a bowl in the microwave for 15 seconds (because coconut oil is solid at room temperature, and it helps mix everything together). Then I add as much conditioner as I think I'll need, mix them together with a spoon until creamy, apply the mixture to my hair and scalp, put on a shower cap, and sit under a conditioning bonnet for 15 minutes to an hour. If you have tangled hair, you can detangle with your wide-toothed comb or Denman brush at this point. Then I rinse, apply a detangler/leave-in, and detangle with a wide-toothed comb.

As I mentioned in my post on detangling, Kinky-Curly and Qhemet Biologics make good detanglers (I use Kinky-Curly's Knot Today). Both of these are creamy leave-ins. I also
like watery leave-ins, like Carol's Daughter's Black Vanilla Leave-In Conditioner.
I'm still searching for the best scalp pomade (hair grease) as well. I like Oyin's Burnt Sugar Pomade (http://oyinhandmade.com/).
That's basically what I use. For more details and specific recommendations, see below:
Some good clarifying shampoos are: Pantene and Suave (I use Pantene), which can

be purchased at any grocery or drug store. Clarifying shampoos remove product build up and dirt from the hair and scalp. They are very strong, so they should only be used once every four or sixweeks. If it ever feels like the products you once loved aren't working anymore, it could be that you just need a good clarifying shampoo! When I use it, I normally shampoo with the clarifying shampoo first, then I do one or two other washes with a moisturizing shampoo.
I am still looking for my all time favorite moisturizing shampoo. One I've used and liked is
Elucence Moisture Benefits Shampoo. I'm not sure , but I think that Elucene can only be purchased online, either at elucence.com or curlmart.com. It is pretty moisturizing and smells like peaches. It works really well with the Moisture Balancing Conditioner. LKY says the Redken Smooth Down Shampoo is really good, so I may try that soon. I also like Carol's Daughter's Tui Herbal Shampoo, but it has been out of stock on her website for at least 4 or 5 months now. I wonder if she'll bring it back (hope so!).Protein deep conditioners are good for strengthening hair, and are really good for damaged hair.
I don't really worry about using them that much because since my hair is natural and way stronger than when it was relaxed. However, when I got my hair colored, my colorist highly recommended that I use a good conditioner with protein. I was at an Aveda concept salon, so of course, she recommended the Aveda damage remedy Intensive Restructuring Treatment. It works pretty well. I only use it every now and then because 1) it was so expensive and I want to stretch it out, 2) it comes in such a little tube, and 3) I've heard that protein is good, but can make the hair hard and break off if it is used too often.There are lots of moisturizing deep conditioners out there that are great. However, my all-time
favorite deep conditioner that I've ever tried is Redken Smooth Down Butter Treat. I don't have any right now because I'm trying to use up all my other conditioners before buying anymore (and trust me, I have a LOT!). No matter what conditioner I use, I always add the following ingredients to kick it up a notch: coconut oil, olive oil, castor oil, and honey (OFF TOPIC: I also like to put castor oil on the ends of my hair if it is especially dry). I warm up the ingredients in a bowl in the microwave for 15 seconds (because coconut oil is solid at room temperature, and it helps mix everything together). Then I add as much conditioner as I think I'll need, mix them together with a spoon until creamy, apply the mixture to my hair and scalp, put on a shower cap, and sit under a conditioning bonnet for 15 minutes to an hour. If you have tangled hair, you can detangle with your wide-toothed comb or Denman brush at this point. Then I rinse, apply a detangler/leave-in, and detangle with a wide-toothed comb.
As I mentioned in my post on detangling, Kinky-Curly and Qhemet Biologics make good detanglers (I use Kinky-Curly's Knot Today). Both of these are creamy leave-ins. I also
like watery leave-ins, like Carol's Daughter's Black Vanilla Leave-In Conditioner.I'm still searching for the best scalp pomade (hair grease) as well. I like Oyin's Burnt Sugar Pomade (http://oyinhandmade.com/).
I just got Qhemet Biologic's Tea Tree and Grapeseed Therapeutic Pomade in the mail (http://www.qhemetbiologics.com/) today. Once I use it, I'll let you know what I think.
I've tried a lot of moisturizers. I believe almost anyone will like either Oyin or Qhemet Biologics's products (see web addresses above). I have had a lot of success with Karen's Body Beautiful Hair Milk (http://www.karensbodybeautiful.com/). I use it on the edges and sides of my hair when I put my hair up in a puff. I don't really use it on twist-outs because it is water based and causes my hair to lose some of the definition. Oh yeah, her shampoo and conditioner are pretty good, too. She has lots of scents to try. So far, I like the White Tea scent the best.
I prefer butter or oil based moisturizers for my twist-outs, but I'm still searching for
my favorite. Right now, I'm using Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme (http://www.missjessies.com/). It's ok--it gets the job done. I only use it a couple of times a week because it has mineral oil in it, which can build up. It is very expensive, too. I buy Miss Jessie's products during their bogo free sale in December, so that helps. Once I use up this jar, I'm definitely going to search for something else.I use IC Fantasia Hair Polisher Styling Gel with Sparkelites (why is that
name so long?), which can be bought anywhere. I use it to slick down my edges and puffs. It can also be used for twists, twistouts, rod sets, flat twist sets, etc., although I've never used it for those styles. It is the most recommended edge-slicking gel I've seen on Nappturality. I can use it every day without it drying out my hair or flaking up, and is very affordable.I like to use curl creams for my twist outs. For a long time, Miss Jessie's Curly Meringue was my all-time favorite curl cream.
However, I recently discovered Curls (http://www.curls.biz/). Curls Whipped Cream is now my favorite because it is less expensive, moisturizes, and holds while leaving the hair soft. It is the best of all worlds! 
I like to use the Quenched Curls Moisturizer underneath it (they call it underwear for your hair).
Hair tools are pretty much self explanatory, so I won't include many pictures.
- I use the rattail comb to smoth my edges for twists and twist-outs. It's also good for precise parts if you ever need them.
- I use the regular comb for parting for twists and extra detangling after detangling with the wide-tooth comb.
- I mostly use my Denman brush for brushing my hair up into a puff. It really does glide through natural hair well (remember, I only comb or detangle my hair when it is wet or highly moisturized).
- I use the boar-bristle brush for smoothing my hair into a puff (I'll go into more detail in later posts on hairstyles).
- I use clips and ponytail holders to hold my hair out of the way when I'm putting in twists.
- I generally wear headbands every day when my hair is down. I just like the look.
- I use sponge rollers to set my twists for a curly twist-out the next day (I get SOOO many compliments when I wear my hair that way! :-) ) I use them with end papers to protect my hair from snagging or drying out. You can also now find satin-covered sponge rollers just about anywhere. Maybe I'll ask for some for Christmas.
- I wear the satin scarf on the way to work to set my edges and sides of puffs. I have a separate scarf that I sleep in to protect my hair at night.
- The satin bonnet protects your hair at night. It is really good for keeping curly styles longer because it doesn't press your hair down. I try not to wear it too much because it is NOT sexy (know what I mean, ladies?). The scarf is a little more attractive. :-)
- If you don't like wearing anything on your head at night, a satin pillowcase also gets the job done.

- I use the conditioning bonnet with my deep conditioner.
Sorry it took me so long to post, but I knew this would be a long one and I needed some time to get it together. Here's another educational site on caring for natural hair: http://www.motowngirl.com/. Wow, she provides SO much information! This site really helped me out when I was transitioning and newly natural.
Another reason why I decided to go naturale: I wondered what my natural hair looked like. My hair had been pressed or relaxed for as long as I could remember. I was curious about what my unaltered texture looked like (curly? coily? shiny? did it have luster?) and felt like (soft? smooth? strong?), and how long it could grow.See you next time!
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